And WE are also tasked with figuring out how to gently talk to these men about our issue, all while not raising their emotional arousal. Yeah right.

It makes me think about this sometimes. Whether I really want to raise kids like this or not.

I LOVE my husband, and he is now nowhere nearly as bad as the guy you describe in this article. He’s also a phenomenal Dad. But the programming of the culture runs deep. And EVEN with the contributions, he would never do what you do for your wife. Gah.

Breathing.