Fascinating. On one hand - you don’t get to practice batting the ball unless you have the chance to swing at something. And dating apps ARE visual, so looking good and interesting is part of that puzzle. But it’s only step one of many.

And on the other hand, will tomorrow’s men be yesterday’s women? Told to look pretty and appear intriguing - without really being acknowledged for who you are and what you think and dream?

Not a knock on your article. Just a reflection on the state of relational understanding we seem to be in these days.