Goddess bless, we live in interesting times!
Your analysis of the OF situation is fascinating. There really aren’t any answers to be had yet. Just lots of questions.
I remember dancing as a stripper when I left Microsoft. I went from seeing my coworkers in front of screens and wondering at their internal sexual awkwardness — to seeing very similar men and faces and bodies at the edge of the stage. Just as weird.
I wonder who owns and runs OF now. Going to go look that up. Intent is such an intersting thing when it comes to feminism…