Ha! Well that’s one way to think about it.

Personally the unexploded ordinance that is these guys lives seems too volatile to ignore. And despite my snarky essay, I have a lot of empathy for the plight of men caught in the throes of late stage patriarchy. These guys are a product of the broken system.

Maybe we can help them redeem themselves if we make space for them to emerge and find a new way. They’re gonna have to WANT to. But… ?

I appreciate your frustration though. You said all the quiet parts out loud.