Hahaha. When my husband and I got together, at 11 years younger than me he was my pool boy too. He even rode on the back of my motorcycle.

12 years and 2 kids later, we’ve flip flopped roles many times. The biggest components of a non-insane life in a crazy world have been the willingness to learn, grow, self reflect, communicate, and see each other fully. Oh and a healthy double dose of self respect and respect for each other.

These days I’m working and he’s the weekday kid mgmt lead. But we just flow with what makes sense for us