Hey Charlie. This is the era for big strong voices to speak up - or cry as long as they want to in the doctors office.
Western medicine, imho, misses the whole boat when it comes to fertility assistance.
If you’ve still got any eggs, you might want to look into contacting a clinic that combines acupuncture and fertility assistance. You can actually stimulate ovulation and drastically increase your chances of conceiving without having to do IVF.
Here’s some info on the concept
https://www.cnyfertility.com/acupuncture-for-fertility/
And feel free to reach out if you want any more info on how you might be able to use this toolset.
I feel for you sister.