Hey Elle, have you ever heart of parts work?
It’s come into my field recently and addresses a whole lot of this diconnect in a very cogent way.
I know we both know what is happening, and have our shared theories on how it happene. Parts work goes a long way towards illuminating the why.
https://open.spotify.com/show/216xBEIQy3woip09xZAhFa?si=bTxPTx1bQAGIuFdVPhhGFQ