I agree. Yael doesn’t often respond to comments. She’s written about why in the past. Somewhere…

But I’m responding.

And I don’t think it’s cool to (a) complain my ass off about men, or (b) blame them for the problems of the world. So I agree with you on that. We need more nuance.

These cultural problems are SYSTEMIC. Not personal or gendered. If we’re going to make the world feel better, we’re going to have to do it together.