I am a woman.

I get the emotion and logic behind women choosing the 4B movement. Especially in states where abortion is illegal and getting pregnant is incredibly risky.

I don’t agree that women cannot be 100% independent from men. We can. We are able to make those choice, and some women might indeed be happier like that.

But what I agree with you on - is we need to be working towards unity, and together - not pushing further apart.

It’s not an effective political strategy to create more division.

It could be a valid personal choice. But it’s not a lever to change things.

And… Trump’s election has emboldened the worst misogyny I’ve ever personally seen from the bottom scrapers of the manosphere. So I totally get why the most vulnerable women are pulling back.