I think the answer is still love. Women have to love themselves enough to not put up with the ramifications of poor masculine expression.

But my own experience has been that loving a man in his strengths and vulnerabilities WHILE AT THE SAME TIME loving myself enough to have clear boundaries and healthy communication has changed my partners need to isolate. We have an amazing realationship because we’re BOTH learning how to do that.

No to coverature. That’s obvious! And no to an escalation of the dominance hierarchy too!

Love. And boundaries. My 2 cents here.