I met my now husband when he was 21. I was 32. 11 years & 2 kids later, we are still going strong.

I DEFINITELY got pegged with the cougar label at the time. But only by old men.

So much of what you write about the benefits of this kind of arrangement are true.

It also motivates me to stay strong.

Yay for the younger generation of men who are more open minded, more emotionally intelligent, more willing to be vulnerable, and more conscious in general.

Honestly I feel bad for what the world taught previous generations about living in the #manbox.

Zita have you read Mark Greene’s work? I think you’d love it.

#onelove