I think you’re right. I totally respect what Vena shared of her own experience. I can draw on my own as well.

But I love my husband and I love my kids. And I’m still allowing myself to recenter in a hopefully healthy way. That has required me to do draw some hard lines in the sand with my men. Both of em.

I see some men doing the work. That gives me some hope. But yes, y’all are quite stubborn. There’s a reason for that. It’s how we’ve all been trained.

Time for a new understanding!