If you flip the genders in this phrase - you would realize this is EXACTLY what women are asking for. Reciprocity, effort, and mutual respect.

Along with an honoring of the feminine aspect of life - that is actually NOT exclusive to the female half of our species, but lives within ALL of us.

Maybe women wouldn’t be so extreme in their online presence and persona if men weren’t so hardheaded and resistant to listening to the woman’s basic ask to be heard in the first place.

Just a thought.

A little self-reflection on the part of most men would go a LONG way in addressing this.