Its a good question - especially if you’re a man that respects women.

It’s not personal many times. The decenteting is systemic. It parallels the way white culture decenters black and brown folks. Or how elite economics decenters the poor.

If you truly want to see what we’re talking about, read the book Invisible Women. Here’s a link to the description.

https://carolinecriadoperez.com/book/invisible-women/