It’s a hall of mirrors out there. In general the internalization of the external gaze just pretty much sucks.
https://medium.com/fearless-she-wrote/what-it-feels-like-to-be-looked-at-47bdd53c7ba5
I’m not a makeup person on a regular basis. But I love getting dolled up sometimes. If I have a girlfriend who can help me. But mostly I’m bare faced and I’m cool with that.
My little girl who is 6 LOVES makeup. She loves glitter, and face paint, and colorful eyeshadow, and sometimes markers. She can also draw a perfect cat eye and is totally into drawing faces with makeup.
I have told her that as long as she uses makeup to make herself happy, it’s just an art form. As long as she does it because SHE likes it, I fully support her.
Judgment is silly.