It’s tricky, right? The “regardless of what this woman is thinking, here’s what I’m going to do” bit.
Because I see where you’re coming from. That stunt was horrendous.
But when does ANY person get to say, I know better than she does about what she wants and needs and deserves - and truly honor that person in whatever fucked up stunt they might be orchestrating, for whatever warped reason?
I’m not arguing with you. This whole stunt, which I’ve only heard about, is weird. But who has the agency? The lady? Or the 101 dudes invited to participate?