Jackson Katz mentions this minimization of my words, and what that really translates to in this excellent talk.

https://www.ted.com/talks/jackson_katz_violence_against_women_it_s_a_men_s_issue

But then where would we middle aged women be without comments like yours to prove our point so clearly?

If you’re that resistant to my empathetic assessment of a flawed system, of which you are also a victim, then good luck.