Just wait til perimenopause hits you. It’s very, very real as well. I’m working on a weird-al-style remake of “white and nerdy” to “old and sweaty.”

All humor aside, there are some pretty amazing things you can do to even out the experience. Not get rid of, or suppress. Just make it a little smoother. They aren’t drugs or supplements. In fact it’s mostly self massage, qigong, and energy work.

My friend Bella LaVey teaches a class called Radical Radiance. It’s an 8 week, once a week, virtual, woman’s salon. And it’s amazing!!! Let me know if you’d like the link.

Also, it’s not about making yourself less so others are more comfortable. It’s about embracing all of you. And unweaving generations of past trauma.

Anyway. Loved your piece!