My EIGHT year old got cat called last year, walking in front of Whole Foods!!! I was gobsmacked.

I’m teaching her the fucking Vulcan neck pinch and a smattering of dim mak! And I’m going to continue educating both my kids about the insanity of this dominator mindset bullshit, and how to do an end run whenever possible around it.

I feel for the disconnect in men that leads to this kind of behavior.

As much as my inner mama bear wants to (in the moment) fucking KILL any men who threaten my daughter or me - I also recognize that the root cause also needs to be addressed. And that’s about reconnecting these men with their feelings and their own sense of self worth.