Ok dude. You have some points here. But... the comments below really do say it all.

How are men ever going to really learn to listen to women, EVEN IF THEY DON'T AGREE? The fact that you went through and broke down her whole damn article, presenting your perspectives as more valid than hers (with exception to the few points you did agree with) does not take the context of this post into account. 5000+ years of cultural dominance of power, force, and violence over not only women, but MOST men.

When are we going to do more than argue these points and get into the brass tacks of learning how to listen respectfully and offer our own perspectives in a respectful way.

You tried, I see you trying in your initial wording, but dude... C'mon.