So often, the tone of voice matters more than what’s actually even said.

Or don’t you know that a condescending tone of voice, and and an accusation of intellectual laziness is probably not the best way to get any kind of point across?

Maybe a cold office is supposed to drive productivity. Or prevent sleepiness. For me, a cold office does the opposite.

Tell me again, why don’t you, how my lived experience of being human doesn’t make sense to you, and see if I give a shit.

Of maybe you could note that I was quoting someone else about the connection between cold and pateiarchal though. Or were you too lazy to read the whole piece?

It’s not all men’s fault that the patriarchy exists. But it’s comments like this that make women feel like it’s a lot of y’all.