sounds like the gateway drug to an open relationship if I ever read one.. lol.

lots of great ideas in this piece. having the mental freedom to thrill to the attraction of a person other than your spouse is great. the logistics are tough though. on many levels. but by having a shared conversation with your partner around these things, you can touch the thrill in a very safe way.

as a woman, being in an open relationship makes me feel less like anyone is trying to own me. I can be fully myself. yay for all the exploring that's going on in these realms!