That does sum it up pretty well, “Fuck the tough guy show.” But it’s a little oxymoronic as well. Kinda like “smashing the patriarchy.”

The inherent urge to evolve beyond the patriarchy, the tough guy show, or the standard dominance hierarchy zeitgeist of modern culture - we will wventually have to HEAL, rather than eithrr smashing or fucking old systems.

The sentiment is understood. I’m glad men are starting to talk about this bravely. Yes!!!