This piece is so good! Thank you, whoever you are, my dude. You spoke truth here!

I’ve got my degrees, speak multiple languages, and read and write with an enormous amount of curiosity.

My husband is a jiujitsu coach and soil farmer with a high-school education. But he 100% brings it. He works on improving himself everyday. He’s strong, sexy, and knows how to hold a container for me and my big emotions.

It’s not about levels. It’s about effort. And when a man likes himself enough to work on himself, he can be an incredible partner to any woman - no matter how ambitious she is.

And to the guys who are talking about “we shouldn’t have standards?” You have to be kidding, right? We absolutely have standards for the lives we want to live. And if a man takes us out of those? We leave.