We’re not going to solve for the shitstorm caused by the patriarchy until we all address it together. Yes, the feelings of this guy and the others like him who are NOT acting monstrously are 100% valid. And as you also say, so are the feelings and actions of the sisters.

This fallacy that men are responsible for the rules of the patriarchy? Easy to see where it comes from, but so not true.

I blame the alphabet 8000 of so years ago!