When we unpack all of this, in its myriad layers of dysfunction and attempted control, it definitely fits into the framework of the domination hierarchy.

Also, you probably were not some other woman’s asshole boyfriend. But you couldn’t have escaped the conditioning. No one did.

But like everything else, it’s all getting excavated. Why do you think the feminists get so loud? The loaded triggers are ubiquitous.

Thank you for your initial question. IMHO, it’s a good thing to wonder…