Wow. Yeah, all of this.


Yelling is my personal bugaboo - both given and received. As I age, I gain more and more capacity to keep my calm.

I’ve started walking away from yelling more and more. When I can. It feels very liberating.

But goddess bless, if he hasn’t heard my reasonable communications for days and he keeps blowing me off? It’s a slim chance I’m not going to be triggered.

Our family slogan is, “working on it.” It refers to personal evolution.

Relationships are not easy. And raising kids together makes it 10000% harder.