Yikes! That doesn’t sound like much fun.
I actually prefer the term #Partnerism over #Feminism, because the domination hierarchy isn’t really a gendered thing. Gender is one aspect yes, but the ball of wax goes much deeper.
I’d never tell my son what to think, or to demand merit when none was due. That’s just the whole domination thing in a fractal instance!
Things I address are assumed entitlement - in both my kiddos. Or how violence and control, along with a dehumanizing view of “the bad guys” is not really a good long term solution.
I think the solution has everything to do with leaning more into partnerism, and patience, and an unweaving of generational trauma - for ALL of us. Not just men alone. Women need to do it too.